- Make her notice you! If she does, then the easy part is over.
- Take your time. If she gives you her number, perfect, but don't beg for it. Call her when you get her number, but not too much. Some days, let her have a chance to call you! This will show her that you guys are willing to keep in contact.
- Compliment her when she does something smart or kind. Don't overuse compliments though! Compliment her too much and she'll roll her eyes again and again at your attempts at sweet talk.
- Make sure you know things about her. You don't necessarily have to be her best friend, but do be a friend. Let her talk about her feelings with you, and in return try to do the same. But don't pour yourself out. You'll seem weak to her. Unless of course, she asks you to pour yourself, then go ahead. But know how she first felt about you, what her favorite color is and what her favorite book was when she was little. Things like that. But don't over ask.
- Be friends with her family. Being a family friend is a good start. You don't want to get off the wrong foot with her family. They sometimes have the power to change her mind if they don't like you. Visit her family and start a good conversation. Nothing like how's the weather. Talk about something you think would interest them. Read the front page of the paper so that you will know what is going on in this world. Then you will have something to talk about and you will not have to try too hard!! Relax!
- Get her a small gift. Don't get her the world on its knees. Get her something like a small ring, unless she hates jewelry and can't stand the feel of metal on her skin. Maybe she would like some flowers or a pretty bookmark. If you don't know what she would like, try and figure it out. Here are some meanings women might attribute to various objects--
- Ring-Commitment
- Hand-Drawn Portrait-Commitment
- Stuffed toy--Puppy Love
- Flowers: You think she's pretty.
- (Note) Do NOT get her something that might scare her or that she might not need or even like (unless of course she has a collection of things like spoons, marbles, stuff like that.)
- Meet her friends. Meeting her friends means you're a step up! This means she's willing to accept you into her life. Don't push her to meet them though, let her one day ask "Would you like to meet my friends?" whereupon you quickly answer "Sure!"(If she has friends that are women, do not, NOT, become extreme friends with them, be polite, but not extremely friendly, as this will make her think you might cheat on her with her friends.
Tips on How to Make
Her Fall in Love
- A simple one here, but one that is often the hardest one to obtain. Be yourself, smile and be honest. You'll find with anyone, just being you is a 100% sure fire way to knowing if you are meant to be or not.
- Don't over compliment her! If you do, it'll make her extremely bored. But do remember to compliment her sometimes and whenever you really mean it.
- Don't tease her love by joking about how she could improve in some areas or saying that a 'certain' girl looks extremely pretty today in front of her, not even when you're alone! Especially celebrities.
- Love is a feeling induced by biochemistry, so learn what situation makes it favorable for a girl to fall in love.
- Watch the movies boys, it's not rocket science.
- Girls want something special that only you two share together.
- Don't ignore her to look cool in front of your friends.
- Make her feel like she is the one you are thinking about and want to be with and MEAN IT!!!!
- When you say you are going to CALL, just do it.
- If it is not working out, then don't drag her on by telling her you miss her the day before you dump her or even after.
- If you end it end it, don't string her along your twisted web.
- Don't use 'I was just drunk', as an excuse to get out of anything!!!
- Look like a strong figure, girls don't like sissies but dont pretend or the girl will find out eventually.
- Never talk negative about her friends, even if she might be. Just be an ear when she needs one.
- Don't try to keep her your 'dirty little secret', it will blow up in your face.
- All women want is just to love and be loved in return.
- Try and give her the movie kiss she has always wanted.
- Surprises don't always have to cost anything.
- Drop the three day calling rule. Don't leave her waiting!! Girls hate that, it leaves them confused and they might start to think that you are cheating on them.
- make her want you, you have to be special in her eyes, if not what's stopping her from finding another guy?
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